Adam Piotrowski asks the wroclove.rb 2025 audience whether, at the start of a partner relationship, he should have shared an unproven rumor (gleaned from a friend's company) that the newly hired senior developer had previously been suspected of moonlighting. Audience consensus: it depends — seven years into the partnership he would say it immediately, but in the first few months it's harder. Adam's own takeaway: 'don't be that guy' — trust is worth preserving.